Sunday, February 3, 2008

*ugh* people....

Two things first off. Yes, this is a rant, so skip it unless you're seriously bored with nothing else better to do. Second, if you're reading this, it's not about you. Anyone referenced herein is not a myspace buddy, so don't go getting all offended.

Ever start talking to someone, get to be pretty good friends and find out that not only are they clingy, but emotionally fucked? Guess what? I used to not have friends too! If you've got even one friend, and they have another friend, then the three of you hang out together. And if that other friend knows people, you hang out with them. That's how you make more friends. It's not rocket science! If you're that hard up for friends, then you hang out with the friends of friends even if they suck to see if they have any other friends that are cool. You want friends? Go somewhere. Anywhere. Look interested in something. Eventually someone will come up and talk then you talk back. You know what's great to make people remember you? Bizarre ass trivia. So long as it's relevent, tell someone something off the wall and they'll remember. Even if you get labeled as "The __whateveryouweretalkingabout__ guy/girl" they'll remember you.

(Jori, if you're about to read this next part, I swear I'm not talking about you) Why is it so often that these same people sit and bitch and moan about their lack-of-love life? "Oh, s/he'll never love me" "I'll never find someone" "I'm so lonely" "It doesn't matter if s/he doesn't love me, as long as I have someone" Guess what? If you don't love yourself, how can you expect someone else to? If you're not complete alone, you can't expect someone else to do it for you. There's someone for everyone, and it doesn't matter if you're 16 or 60 (or older!). The right person will come along, and usually when you're not even looking. Guess what else (bizarre trivia alert!) when you're out hunting for someone to be with, you're putting off not only "attack mode" body language, but also certain pheramones that are a detterent to members of the opposite sex! When you're confident and chill and not looking, that's when others are drawn to you, because you're putting off a calm vibe. You're intriguing. And that's a fact.

And why is it all of a sudden whenever I open my mouth someone has to aggressively contradict what it is I'm saying? (go ahead, Shed, I'm expecting it) What, first I don't talk enough and now I talk too much so people aren't taking notice that I mean what I say? I don't just say shit to say shit. Granted, there are days when I ramble-blog, and days when I brain fart, just like everyone else. But I don't go out of my way to make shit up just to have something to say. Ya try to contribute to a conversation, try to be as honest as possible and get attacked.

Of course I could go on forever about people in general, but I don't feel like it. Besides, one of my emotional leeches just got on so I'll be making a hasty exit now.

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